Posts tagged ‘Assertiveness’
Why is attitude so important in our lives?
I have passed the last months talking with friends about how attitude can change and even improve your live.
I remember seeing a short film, if we can call it like that, where the message was behaviour changes behaviour, during a long time I didn’t understand quite well this message and even supposed it was not very clear how it was possible to make others improve just by taking in consideration my one behaviour, them, my world map suffer a huge discovery 🙂
I just realized that the change of behaviour/attitude should not be for others it should be especially for me, for my auto preservation and even for my wellbeing and that if I accepted to change, to evolve the biggest beneficiary it would be me.
Find my 2nd discovery
Keep things in perspective, being able to know yourself and at the same time deal with others in an assertive way is never easy, but you can do it! 🙂
As a suggestion start by looking to yourself and find out which are the aspects that make people want to be your friend, work with you, be near you and even why people listen to what you have to say and value your opinion – just make a list…
I dare you to keep reading!